MORE STORIES FROM REAL PEOPLE WHO HAVE LOST LOVED ONES

TO THE FAR RIGHT MEDIA MACHINE

 

HER DAD BECAME A STRANGER TO HER, THREATENING to kill her.

Dear Jen Senko, 

I just wanted to thank you for your documentary. I'm sure you get your fair share of fan mail, and I have no doubt it rivals some of the hate mail in your inbox. Please know this is being written in gratitude. 

Had I known this film was being made, I would have loved to have been a participant. Prior to seeing this film, I had felt all alone, having witnessed the very same metamorphosis in my own family, in particular, my dad. 

He and I always had a bit of a strained relationship, but he drastically changed when he quit drinking and moved away from the hippy persona he once possessed, finding comfort in the arms of the born-again, evangelical Christian community. Slowly but surely, the car radio helped incite his fear, then the TV incited his hatred, before I knew, I stopped knowing him, the guitar playing, rock music loving jokester. 

He's gone now. Two and a half years. But about three months before his death, he actually did kick me out of his car in a fit of rage I had never known simply because I mentioned Sweden paying their citizens to go to college. I felt like you and I shared a dad when in the first few moments of your movie, you discussed your dad threatening to kick you out of his car. My dad became a racist bigot who cursed me and disowned me even though I was the only person driving him to his cancer treatment appointments. He often cursed me and threatened me on the way to those appointments. He kicked me out of his house for reading a book on meditation. 

Since his death, I've become more of an activist who now works with several organizations that fight for the Separation of Church and State and Womens Rights. I do this with my father in mind and know if he were still alive, he would hate me more than anyone in the world. 

I felt like I told my story while hearing everyone else's. Abuse from my dad, threats from the man who I once loved and admired, a man who had become a stranger over time, threatening to kill me, to kill us both while driving like an enraged lunatic screaming inaudible conspiracy theories. I was brought back to it all while watching your film. 

Unfortunately, I see it happening to many of my family members now. But every person who can see this, maybe, hopefully it will help. 

Thank you again for your work. Though it reopened some wounds, it reminds me why I fight. I'm so grateful that you've shown me that I'm not alone. 

C. from NJ

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DEMOCRATS ARE EVIL TO HER HUSBAND.

Hello Jen,

 I just heard about your documentary.  Someone shared an interview you did about it on FB.  My husband has been taken over by first, Rush, and then Fox News.  He is convinced they are the only fair and balanced news, that everything they say is the gospel, and that anything sounding remotely different is the “liberal media” brainwashing us.  He is a farmer, uneducated, older white guy…just Fox’s prey.  While he has always been conservative, he was not spending every spare minute listening to Fox or Rush.  I am not conservative and have a Master’s degree in sociology (history, political science undergraduate degree) so I am well educated on propaganda, fallacy, racism, sexism, and the effects of SES in influencing our point of view.  My husband was so convinced that Mitt Romney was going to win the last election that he became VERY angry and wouldn’t speak to me.  He left the house at 4:00am and was just so blown over by it that he couldn’t cope for a while.  Fox News had him.

 No matter how much information I bring him regarding the slant of Fox News, he waves it off as liberal agenda and all lies.  To him Republicans are “good” and Democrats are “evil”.

 He was always a little racist and sexist.  Now, he is a full-blown racist and agrees with Trump on nearly everything he says.

 So, we often watch TV in separate rooms and fight over the radio station when traveling.  It is really horrible what is happening in our society because of Fox News and Rush Limbaugh.

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Father cut daughter out of will for being a liberal.

 My dad died two years ago at age 92.  His only companions were his dog (whom he neglected), the neighbor across the street, and FOX News.

 I was left out, as I was "the other".  That means I'm an atheist, Democrat, anti-American, and dangerous person in his mind.  I tried to look after him if only for the sake of my deceased  mother.

 Instead of recognizing my contributions, my father verbally abused me, sometimes belligerently.  I knew better than to discuss politics. 

 However, I was serenaded by my father repeating eagerly the last thing he heard Bill O'Reilly or Sean Hannity say.  And he had a man crush on Newt Gringrich.

 The volume of the TV was at 10; it couldn't go any higher.  The walls rocked with FOX News.  There was no escaping it.  It was torture to be in the same house with my father.

 I said nothing as I recognized that my father had died spiritually while his body remained in the green Lazy Boy chair from the time he got up to when he retired.

 And I said nothing as my sister warned me that he would change his Will out of spite.  So I was quiet.

 Like I told you, he died almost two years ago.

 And you know what?

 The idiot neighbor across the street inherited $35,000 from Dad.

 I inherited a Life Estate in the house.  I don't own it.  I have to pay for the municipal taxes, upkeep, and repairs.  When it is sold, I will not get a penny from the proceeds; that money goes to four charities.  I didn't inherit a dime from my father. 

I'll always wonder whether my father was independently cruel and malicious or whether he just picked up some bad attitudes from all that RW BS he accumulated for 15 years.

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Government agencies have Fox News on their TVs.

 My father, yes. He's obviously brainwashed, along with my father-in-law who lives with us.

 But I was brainwashed too.  It all started on 9/11 when I was living within walking distance to the Pentagon. I was always a channel-flipper, but now it was just FOX News.

 A decade later I was living in Tucson, Arizona and decided to get rid of Cable TV. I was always outside and just wanted to save a few bucks.

 No Cable TV = No FOX News

 A few months later, Gabby Giffords was shot. She was being treated for her injuries at a hospital just across the street from where I lived and the news vans were beginning to pile up. So I found a TV and flipped on FOX News...

 I was expecting to be drawn in again. I swear, turning on FOX News again had me feeling as if I was lighting up a cigarette while trying to quit.

 Instantly, it was like the ghost of 'FOX News Past' reminded me of how many years I wasted watching Fox News.

 I have 20 years with the Federal Government, and you would be shocked to know the high percentage of TVs within these buildings constantly tuned to FOX News. So you might as well start your next documentary, because it's just the start of the brainwashing.

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His Dad was always Republican but didn’t become radical until he started watching Fox News.

 Dear Jen:

 I am so sorry I did not know about your documentary work when you were interviewing people who have suffered the same dad brainwashing affliction caused directly by Fox News, right wing radio, etc. Sadly, my father was one of those transformed men who just never came back. We were hardly on speaking terms when he passed suddenly in 2013.

 But here's the bizarre part for me. He was a brilliant, highly educated New York City orthopedic surgeon (and pretty famous in his orbit), and I am an attorney who, for most of my life into adulthood, loved and adored my father. Had him be my best man at my wedding, even though I had and have several very close male friends who could have been.

 Yes, our politics were always contrary. He was a Republican, more Rockefeller New York moderate than conservative (as best that label can be understood today), and I have been a mostly left leaning progressive. BUT WE ALWAYS COMMUNICATED AND DEBATED IN FRIENDLY AND LOVING WAYS, UNTIL FOX NEWS CAME ALONG.

 And then it all changed. He had it on all day and night. He was constantly angry; he lost his ability to argue rationally. Facts as a doctor and scientist seemed to all but disappear. It was really something to behold.

 And then we stopped talking for the most part. And then he was gone...